Updated: Nov 27, 2019
In 22 + years of readings, I have come to learn some very important differences between the clients who are blown away and love their readings, from those who leave feeling disappointed. Believe it or not, you, the querent, have a lot of control over how the reading actually turns out. Follow these tips, and get the most out of your next reading.
Bring A List Of Questions: Many people think it’s best to be tight-lipped when they show up for a reading. I personally have even had clients tell me that they “want to know the thing about the thing”. While on the surface it may seem like a good idea to do this so you don’t give too much away, in actuality all it does is waste time and your money. A good psychic could talk your whole session and be right about everything but it doesn’t mean she/he will ever touch on the reason you booked the session in the first place. If you come prepared with questions; then they can be addressed and answered; allowing you to leave having clarity and feeling happy.
Be Open To The Experience: Sometimes people have already secretly decided they are going to “test” their psychic. For example, “What colour am I thinking of?” If the psychic can’t guess correctly that then they must be fake. The truth is, this isn’t a scientific way to test anything. Also, having a secret agenda of testing just takes away from the whole experience. Similarly, some people enter a reading with a firm opinion on what should be said, so if the psychic presents a different outcome, then the querent decides its crap.
Instead I recommend you do some research when deciding who to see. Then come in with a mind that you are open to the experience. No tricks, no games, just relax, and enjoy it in the moment. You can always listen to the recording afterwards and evaluate it then. But in the moment be genuine and enjoy.
It’s OK If You Don’t Agree, Or If It Doesn’t Make Sense: Sometimes a psychic will share information that might make you uncomfortable or down right freaked out. Believe it or not; that’s ok. Sometimes they will say things that don’t seem to be plausible as far as you can see. And that’s ok too. Afterall, you are paying for a session to gain new insight. If you could see everything yourself, then you probably wouldn’t have any questions and don’t need a reading. So see what is said, and then see what happens. Sometimes they psychic will be off, but oftentimes, something dramatic changes that you couldn’t foresee and things align.
You Are Responsible For Your Choices: No matter what is said in a reading, no matter whether a new perspective is shared, or future events, it’s important to remember that it’s you the querent who must live with the consequences, not the psychic. No matter what they say, you must take the time to consider it, but also consider the consequences and decide if you are ok with it or not. Ultimately your life is up to you and no one else.
Take time to research your prospective psychic, follow these steps and you’ll have a much better chance of enjoying your sessions, learning something new…and who knows…you might even change your life for the better.
Barbara Ford is an internationally recognized Spiritual Advisor, Holistic Practitioner & Paranormal Expert. She has been featured in magazines, a book, a documentary, many TV Shows book for her excellent work. Barbara is also a published author. To book an in-person or by phone consultation or a session please call 289-891-7711
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